That's correct, but following the First shock my most important response is the fact that I just don't desire him to do this to everyone else.
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.. I too have shwon symptoms of someone who's got repressed sexual abuse. What's the likelyhood that I was also touched? Is it most effective to disregard these fears totally for now?
by weirdedout » Mon Jun ten, 2013 10:04 pm Thanks all for taking the time to offer me some rational responses. It helps serene me somewhat. I built an appt for us to find out his outdated therapist tomorrow night time (he went for depression several years ago). It can be such a strange predicament to be in -- Sure I come to feel violated, but I experience this kind of empathy for him due to the fact He's my son. At this stage This really is equally of our trouble.
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I just have had an odd sensation, and the more investigation I do the greater this looks as if a probable circumstance in which the mom relied on the son for in excess of a mom son romantic relationship...but perhaps some emotional if not Actual physical intimacy.
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Can your boyfriend deliver the topic up towards your brother all over again? Probably they could Possess a couple of beverages jointly along with your boyfriend can inform him you have outlined prior to your therapist claimed he Seems as though he might have been sexually abused.
Thanks for sharing your distressing story. Stories like yours are highly effective and extremely vital. It's important for people to go through this type of tales since a) sexual abuse usually is still downplayed and invalidated through the Culture and b) sexual abuse where by male is actually a target and woman is a perpetrator are invalidated ten instances additional because of societal gender stereotypes. You might be Certainly suitable, the abuse of son by mother is equally as harming as the abuse of daughter by father.
It could be almost nothing but I am curious if you will find signs here and when I need to do anything at all I can't visualize myself. concernedboyfriend Shopper 0
She does risky points with me...like possessing sex with the children upstairs or kissing the moment they go away the area. When we initially began relationship, she did not check here treatment who watched us.
mostly i just really need to understand why a mother would do a thing like this... I am aware its extremely sexist, but i generally assumed it was Adult men who did this sort of issue, and even when it truly is women its unquestionably not moms. I thought the maternal need to have to protect would be way too robust for them to accomplish anything such as this...does anyone have any links to destinations exactly where i can find out more details on it?
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